People as a whole generally have auric distortions in our dynamics with others, as we push and pull, twist away and latch on or lash out with our energy bodies. Usually, we know this is happening to us on a subconscious level, and react, or become uncomfortable when trying to pretend it isn't happening.
Part of LucidPlay in a group setting is striving to avoid the usual imbalanced auric interactions between people that come because of past associations and learned behaviors. As we get together in the space and go into our most blissful, light filled beingness, stretching to identify with our widest levels of our auras, we get a chance to drop the ego to ego patterns for awhile and see how that feels. Before going to a LucidPlay group event, this is excellent to pay attention to, see what it is you would like to drop during that time, which makes it easier to drop it afterwards. Work on dropping it now.
Think about ways you've felt people use their auras in ways that were uncomfortable to you. Some people pull, trying to suck you in. Some push, trying to get your goat and get your attention. Some jumble and confuse, overwhelm. Some spike, some twist the reality to hide, some withdraw inside theirs, etc. Think about how you react when they do that. Do you go into denial and act like everything is OK? Do you play along with their story, reinforce it? There are many reactions. Imagine how you could react in a more healthy, productive way with someone.
And look honestly at your own interactions and see if you do any of these sorts of things with your own aura. Do you try to get others to take care of you subtly, find yourself attacking when you get defensive, leaving out of the top of your head to avoid communications, focus on their sexuality in a manipulative or limiting way, enlarge your aura to seem important, or try to become invisible, etc?
Imagine how you could engage people in a more clean cut way, more directly, just as two egg shaped auras vibrating together, keeping boundaries healthily intact while exchanging across them knowing we are all part of one connected whole. Trees and people exchange molecules while we breathe, as we are all one whole, but we don't lose our identity and become enmeshed. Connecting is safe when we see the wholeness of all things, as long as we keep our boundaries functioning, filtering out what is not needed.
Next time you go out in public, just play with the way your auras interact. Don't take it too seriously, or put pressure on yourself, but with strangers, maybe try out different ways of auric interactions, good or bad, without telling them what you're doing. Just see how it feels, play with them like playing with a ball, or masks, or bumper cars. And with people you know and trust, see if you can see what may be happening aurically that isn't for the best and try exagerating it, making fun of it together, play acting it, dancing it, making reference to it lightly in ways that acknowledge that you know. And that they know. Don't come off as superior, but as co conspirators. Have a good laugh about it.
Imagine how it could be different, and play act that, dance it, paint it, program yourself to dream it, try it out with friends either telling them what you are doing or not. And see what needs you feel may be unmet, what fears may be too overwhelming if you interact cleanly, or what insecurities prevent healthy interactions. Dig deeply to see what you need to heal.
Explore what family dynamics led you to falling into patterns of auric exchange that are manipulative. And maybe what past lives led you to chose that interaction. Sometimes, the past led you to believe the world was dangerous and you had to attack, or that you would be attacked and you had to just take it, or whatever the pattern is, and you found a family that mirrored that belief to you. Sometimes it is a way to work through that type of patterning together and evolve past it. Many possibilities.
When you do the Tantric exercises that take you into your larger self, feel the self that has always been whole and wise, always makes correct interacting patterns. Remember that's who you are, ultimately. Experience, feel how natural and relaxing it is to just be that. As you strengthen the conduit between the larger and smaller selves through the spine, from upper to lower chakras, or energy whorls, let more of that lucid self inform the limited self. When you do the LucidPlay group events, you can practice interacting from those levels and see how much easier it is, how much more enriching, and life affirming, how much better you can see each other for what you truly are, how much easier it is to be seen for your true nature.
Let go of whatever patterns you want to release when you come back to your limited perspective. Let them flow out into the ground and turn into intert subtle matter. Cut the cords to that behavior so it doesn't become attracted back.
Two or more people can do this. You just need pen and paper.
Draw something but don't let the other person see what you're doing, and don't talk about what you're doing. Go into a deep state of consciousness, maybe altering your state through Tantric exercises first. Establish a rapport between each other, see how much you can feel the flow of consciousness between you, the love. And just go into the spirit of play, with no agenda, no pressure, just draw something somewhat simple and small.
You may want to do a series of images, starting each one at the same time, and making sure you know the order you drew them in.
Then, show them to each other. You will probably have a wild time noticing the similarities in composition between the drawings you did at the same time. And very possibly, similarities in subject matter as well.
You may want to use each moment of drawing to create what vibration you feel the world could use. Drawing activism. Not because someone will see it but because the very act of drawing, the very shape of the drawing itself, the intention from the highest levels of your being, will actually put out the frequency that is needed at the moment. Or that is the best play at the moment.
This world we live in is a fiction, as we are labelling it, describing it, from our own perspective. We are making it up, such as looking at each thing as separate, making the distinctions of boundaries almost arbitrarily. We see colors that are actually the colors that are reflected back, the only colors that are not in what we are seeing. We perceive material as solid, when there is far more space, like the night sky with stars. We see ourselves as being these humans in flesh, knowing so little, when in reality, we are much more powerful and wise and expansive.
Our society is a fiction. Historians change the facts to present a completely different version of reality than what really happened. The mass media covers up the truth completely. The origins of our race itself have been distorted, our capabilities underestimated. Aliens are denied. The fact that our government is plotting against us is not allowed to be discussed without us being labelled terrorists. Religious figures based on astronomy are taken literally.
Each life is a fiction, a story, and the ego itself has quite an agenda of staying in the problem solving mode, with conflict and perpetual desire. The things that occur in our lives can seem like mundane linear progressions of events. Until we start looking at magical synchronicities, dreamlike events that can't be just ordinary. Until we experience our selves from the largest levels. Until we go into Theta brainwave frequency and plunge into the dream of our lives and start to make it lucid.
Can the fiction, the dream, of our world become lucid?
Fiction generally promotes the fictions of newtonian physics, biology promoted by scientists trying to keep their jobs at the universities, news reported by shows owned by politicians, politicians who tell us terrorism comes from the outside of our country rather than from within it. Fiction promotes the idea that we are linear beings with occurances happening because of matter of fact reasons. Fiction promotes the idea of plot and conflict being the center of our lives.
Can we go within the state of fiction and lucidify it? Help it realize it's dreaming?
Can fiction in our stories wake up the fiction of our society, help it move out of the Beta brainwave dominant interpretations of the world into more all inclusive perspectives that move closer to some semblance of reality? Can we experience the Delta state consciously, the state normally reserved for dreamless sleep? I learned to experience that consciously at will using biofeedback machines, at age 13. It helps be beyond the dream. We can learn to pulse out into this dreamed reality and back into the dreamer of it, strobing back and forth.
Can our stories describe humans including all levels of ourselves, the networking at all levels with other beings? Can they encourage moving beyond plot, the dualistic conflict oriented need for drama? Can they acknowledge the conspiracy of our politica, military, and religious leaders without putting it into sci fi format? Can we write our rough drafts of stories from the dreamlike Theta level, bypassing the rational mind? Can they help the reader become more lucid?